Posted by
phineasgray on Aug 17, 2012 in
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Financial stress is part of married life in Florida and everywhere around the world – at least on occasion. Almost all couples have to face it at one time or another, whether they have lots of money or very little. Although many more couples experience it when funds are low, it can be devastating if the problems lies in differences in how money is spent, or money management. These kinds of issues can grow quickly and become so cumbersome that couples split up and divorce. By then it’s too late for marriage counseling, although Florida therapists might have been able to point such couples in a better direction. When times are tough, couple may begin to feel resentment towards each other, which leads to other kinds of behaviors that tend to deterioration in the relationship. It sometimes takes a concerted effort to work together to overcome the difficulties that are presented by financial stress and anxiety. An initial step is therefore for both partners in a marriage relationship to agree to make it through the difficulty, and indeed to see the difficulty as a challenge with a clear goal on the other end. Seeing each other as partners rather than opponents can make a big difference in how various issues surrounding financial stress are handled and addressed. Having marriage counseling with a Florida therapist as a part of the effort to stay united may be extremely beneficial as well. To this end, unresolved tendencies to feel angry towards each other or to blame one another for the present difficulties need to be overcome. There cannot be unity in facing challenges if hidden resentment is present in any shape or form. Keeping focus by constantly envisioning the marriage as a relationship that is being put to the test, but that will benefit greatly once the struggle has ended, is a...